Beep. Beep. Beep. You are in labor, lying in bed attached to an electronic fetal heart monitor (EFM). A medical professional enters the room and immediately walks over to this machine, and with no eye contact he or she unfolds the long strands of paper to read a foreign language that no one explained to you. Nervously you peer down at your fingers as if you are getting graded. Beep. Beep. With that he or she responds, “Okay, looking good. I will be back to check on you in a couple hours.” Beep. Wait a minute. Did the professional check on you or the machine? That is where lines blur. Babies all over the world are being continuously monitored without clear evidence of the benefit.
EFM was enthusiastically introduced into the medical system during the 1960s and took off in the 1980s with hopes that continuously detecting a baby’s heart rate would ensure safety and lower the risk of perinatal death. Ina May Gaskin explains that this, in turn, increased the rate of cesarean section because doctors had not expected that “the lowered fetal heart rates during uterine contractions that could be picked up for the first time with the continuous monitor...were absolutely normal” (116). Many heart rate tracings are identified as abnormal when the baby is in no distress. Continuous EFM is highly sensitive and has the ability to identify fetuses that are distressed, but also has low specificity, or the ability to identify those that are not in distress. The EFM “therefore has a high false positive rate” (Walsh 60).
Walsh conducted a systematic review involving 12 studies and 37,000 women comparing continuous EFM to intermittent auscultation (listening by hand with a fetoscope periodically after a contraction). This review found (58):
Evidence shows that intermittent listening with a fetoscope is just as reliable as EFM, and in most cases takes away much of the fear involved in birth resulting in fewer cesareans. So why is this method still in practice? Continuously monitoring a woman in labor requires less human contact. One nurse is able to “monitor” several patients at a time from a local station. Doctors are able to monitor an entire unit. This in turn lowers costs and shows evidence, via the long strands of paper, that the baby was watched throughout labor if a courtroom was ever involved.
Beep. Beep. Beep. Imagine that you are back in that hospital room. Let’s say that your female nurse walks in and begins to document your baby’s heart rate. This time instead of looking down, look into her eyes and ask her to turn down that noise. Maybe even ask if she will turn the machine away from your line of vision so that it is no longer your concern, just hers. Then ask her the best ways to move around. Most likely she will respond with compassion and understanding.
As a labor and delivery nurse I do this for all of my patients. I always offer to educate them regarding what we are monitoring, why we are monitoring and the policies that go along with that. Then I ask permission to tilt the machine away so that it is no longer a concern. Sometimes the mother and I even cover the machine with a blanket! I then show her how to move around the room while still being monitored, and encourage her to get out of bed if she does not have an epidural.
Technology has a way of creating the illusion that we are progressing. This is not always true and there are data to prove it. Hospital staff and even parents tend to depend on these machines, creating a mind-body split. Sometimes the monitor becomes more important than the internal experience. Don’t let that happen to you – keep yourself empowered and ask questions. The ancient ways of birthing through continuous human contact are still relevant and vital to health and safety for mothers and newborns.
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Gaskin, Ina May. Birth Matters a Midwife’s Manifesta. New York City. Seven Stories Press. 2011. Print.
Walsh, Denis. Evidence and Skills for Normal Labour and Birth a Guide for Midwives. New York City. Routledge. 2012. Print
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Build a relationship
You should have at least 2 prenatal appointments with your doula. During these appointments you'll probably go over things she'll do to help you along during labor and if complications arise. Also during these times you should begin to get comfortable with her touching you in case massage, hair stroking, or counter pressure are used to comfort you during labor so you can let her know what you do and do not like beforehand and to build the comfortableness with her. If you would like she may have relaxation techniques to practice too which would be helpful so you know you can completely relax in front of her. Personally, I found an included belly casting session really helped me open up and get comfortable with my doula.
If at any point you are not comfortable with your doula: First determine if the issue can be resolved and try to fix it. If you think it is something that will affect your ability to remain comfortable with your doula for future appointments and/or during labor, birth, or postpartum then you should talk to her respectively and tell her you just can't do it; She may know someone else available that you may be comfortable with.
If you are a doula or want to become a doula: The steps also apply to you but from a different standing point. Try to give your client as much information as possible so that the family can feel comfortable with you; like a friend rather than business. Reassure partners that you aren't there to take their place, but rather to help them help the mother or step in when they need a break. Beware them that you can not speak for them, you are not a medical professional, and can not give medical advice; You are simply there to support the family and help comfort the mother.
I discovered I had a prolapsed bladder just 2 weeks after giving birth to my fourth child. I could feel a fleshy bulge caused by my bladder slipping down and putting pressure on my front vaginal wall. I was devastated. I felt broken, scared and alone.
I wondered if I would ever be able to bear children again. I began looking for information and found sites like www.wholewoman.com. It was there that I learned how common pelvic organ prolapses (POP) are (we are not alone!) and that they CAN be managed with lifestyle changes. That was 4 years ago.
Since then, I’ve given birth two more times with little or no effect on my prolapse (despite an OBGYN’s insistence that it would only get worse if I continued childbearing). I have learned so much in the last four years about pelvic organ support and health.
I have come out of a place of fear into a place of thankfulness and here are my top 10 reasons why I’m thankful for my POP:
If you have discovered you have a pelvic organ prolapse (bladder, uterus or bowel), take heart! There is hope! You can learn to manage POP and live a full life! Christine Kent has wonderful information over at wholewoman.com! The face of POP isn’t just the post-menopausal woman. Childbearing women can also experience POP. If this is you, take a deep breath, find information and live life fully!
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